While we do everything in our power to attract men, there are certain things that actually have a opposite effect on them. You will not even realise that you are doing something wrong to drive them away. So take control of your actions and avoid these things to attract any man you want.
1. putting tons of makeup
You think that putting on all those foundations, concealer, liner, mascara, etc will make you look more beautiful but actually it is making your face look caked up and guys find it very unattractive. they like their woman with simplicity, too much makeup is a big no for them.
2. Gossiping
You might start gossiping with him just to keep the conversation going but it actually irritates men. They find you of a low self esteem if you keep gossiping about your friends or relatives with him. They think that you do not have enough self esteem so you need to gossip about others to make you look good.
3. Too much confidence
Self esteem is admirable quality that men find in women but too much confidence makes you look conceited. While being proud of yourself and your achievements is good, boosting too much can be a big turn off for men. Show humility and be confident enough to show that you can rely on yourself if need be!
4. Needy
being needed is what men want to feel, they want to fee that they are not disposable but needed in your life. But most women misinterpret it and start to be more clingy and too much needy, being desperate to spend every waking minute with them and too much jealous. thus is a big turn off for men.
5. Playing too hard to get
Men like a good chase but there is a difference in being independent and being unavailable. You might think that playing too hard to get will make you look attractive but you are mistaken if you do not make time for him at all. He might think that you are not at all interested in getting to know him.
6. Being damsel in distress
Many or rather most of our childhood fairytales ended with the prince rescuing his damsel in distress but this is real life and 21st century. You may think that it will attract men but the truth is they find you immature and too weak if you create a lot of drama about your life.
7. Always agreeing with him
this can also be a major turn off for men. you might think that you will please him by agreeing to whatever he says all the time, but the truth is, that he will think that you do not have an opinion of your own about anything. Being able to express yourself is a major way to establish connection and this way, that would be missing.