A marriage is no child’s play, but finding a suitable partner is a task in itself. You cannot decide it in a single meeting by exchanging pleasantries. You need to know a gay and the way he thinks. You need to see if you can live with the kind of guy he is.
But sometimes this match making seems more like a job interview. See this NRI girl interviewing prospective grooms after rejecting quite a few. Will she find her perfect match, watch to know.