If you’re dating a guy and you think something is very right about him then it’s time to look for the reasons why is that so? As much as girls are hard to understand it’s the same with guys, they are also very unpredictable in a manner which can be even more mysterious than girls. Sometimes all that he is looking for is a casual date or non-committing relationship which is kind of fun but can be very confusing. These type of guys can be very hard to get and you will never know why they do the way they do! I mean you will never know that if you have him completely or not, and trust me it’s not fun!
If the guy that you are into or you are dating, in either case, asks you to show up at 1 AM at a house party (though, it might sound romantic?) then probably you should worry a little. If he really sees a future with you then he will never ask you to do such risky things alone, rather he’ll always be responsible towards you.
If he only makes efforts to impress you all the time then probably it’s time to switch. No real relation comes with I-Will-Impress-You games. If a guy is really into you then he will not shy away from showing you his real side. He will let you in when he is still in his PJs, he will fight with you for all sort of reasons, he will be moody, I mean everything a real person does!
Comfort level is the most important thing in a relationship, You should check whether the graph of comfort is really high. If he is still not comfortable and shies away from showing you his most vulnerable side then probably it’s time to move on. Because eventually, such a person will make you insecure too.
If he carries you as a badge of honor in front of his friend, though it might look cute at first, it’s not really right for the long term. No honest guy would be comfortable to show off his girlfriend like a trophy, it’s disrespectful and respect should be the basis and foundation of a relationship. I mean for how long you can show off someone for their looks?
So, girls, next time set your alarms right and look for these signs and know when to leave and when to stay!
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