You may think that you are a perfect couple but a mistake can be made by anyone and you might be making these mistakes in your relationship unknowingly. These things start somewhere you don’t even know and when they become consistent, they start creating trouble for you.
Here are 10 of such mistakes that you must totally avoid.
1. Taking things too personally
Sometimes, your partner said something in general sense and he didn’t even mean it for you but you take it personally, get hurt and then hit back. That messes things up!
2. Always trying to prove that you are right
When you have a fight, you always try to prove yourself right, even if you are not and if your partner proves you wrong, sorry is one word that you just can’t say.
3. Focusing on the bad things
You are looking at the negatives all the times instead of focusing on the positives of your relationship.
4. Letting others interfere
You let others tell you what to do and what not to do in a relationship.They advise you according to their judgement and they know nothing about your relationship as you do.
5. Expecting your partner to be a mind reader
You expect your partner to know what you are thinking and sometimes even to think like you. You forget that he is not a magician!
6. Taking them for granted
When you are in a long-term relationship, you tend to take your partner for granted, you assume that they would always be there, but this is where you go wrong!
7. Not listening to their opinion
Sometimes when you are in an argument or for things in general, you tend to avoid your partner’s opinion.
You lie about small things like why were you not able to call or why were you late, but this is the worst thing that you can do!
9. Talking about the past
If you talk too much about your past, then it hurts your relationship. Telling them about your past is fine but comparing them with that is not, even talking about it all the time might make them feel neglected.
10. Communication gap
This is one of the most common mistakes people make, you do not communicate in your relationship. Not sharing your problems and not speaking your mind can cause problems.