Trust is the foundation of any relationship, but blind faith is not. It’s good to have trust in your partner, but it’s important to keep a vigil eye and catch the red alert signals if your partner tries to cheat on you.
Read out the following signs your partner is cheating on you. If they sound familiar, may be it’s time to remove the veil from your eyes.
1. He puts his phone on airplane mode.
If it happens that when you ask him for his phone for seeing pictures or using otherwise, he puts his phone on airplane mode so that you can’t see incoming texts or calls.
2. He doesn’t leave you with his phone
He takes his phone with him every time he goes to the bathroom. He just won’t let you check his phone in his absence.
3. His phone battery seems to die more than the average person’s
You get to listen the excuses about dead phone’s battery way too often making him unreachable for extended periods of time and you have no clue about his whereabouts.
4. He takes too long to text you back
He is a shitty communicator and takes forever to text you back. Duh, because he’s texting countless other girls, so it takes a while for him to get back to you.
5. Unsaved numbers in his cell phone
He has a lot of numbers in his phone that aren’t saved under names. You can bet those numbers are attached to girls who are conversing with him in a flirty manner.
6. You haven’t met his family.
He is always reluctant to take you to meet his family and introduce you as his girlfriend. Not only family, but friends too. You don’t know many of his friends and his friends don’t know you, probably because he doesn’t want his friends to know about you. Or because he is afraid his secret would be leaked out.
7. His odd behaviour on your checking his phone
When you pick up his phone to do something like check the time he freaks out and/or snatches it away from you with some lame excuse like “my mom’s texts are embarrassing” or “phones are really personal.”
8. His frequent outings with his “guy” friends
If he used to save all of his free time for you, but now he’s always going out for “boy’s night.” This is especially suspicious if he doesn’t have that many male friends, or never showed much of an interest in hanging out with his bros before.
9. Problems in your sex life
If you’re having a really long dry spell. If he never wants to have sex anymore, he may be getting it somewhere else.
10. Persistent mood swings
If everything seems fine and he’s suddenly furious or very upset, especially after a phone call or text message, then another girl may have had something to do with it.
11. Sudden mood changes
If he’s sometimes in a ridiculously good mood or he’s grinning ear to ear and looking off into the distance like he’s remembering a fond memory with another girl, then chances are his good mood has nothing to do with you.
12. Unreachable for a long time
If he disappears for hours, and is just incommunicado for a day, a night, or even a weekend. If he can’t take the time to answer your call or just send you a quick message, then he may be with another girl.
If he doesn’t make eye contact when you talk. If he used to be Mr. Eye Contact, but now he always looks away or at the floor when you speak, then he may be doing it out of guilt.
14. He maintains a distance from you in public
If he shows you affection in private, but not in public. Though some guys are just shy about showing affection in public, if he’s all over you when you’re home, or even when you’re home and hanging out with a few friends, but stands a foot away from you when you’re at a restaurant, he may be worried that his other lady will spot you two together.
15. Overnight change in musical taste.
There’s nothing wrong with trying new things. But when it’s out of the blue and he excludes you from the change, it’s a warning sign that something is amiss.
16. He remembers things wrong or loses track of the details
As he spends more time with both you and his mistress, the memories of his time spent with her and the memories of his time spent with you will start to blur together. Schedules get crossed and he won’t be able to keep track of where he was on any given day. The time he spent with another woman is entirely unaccounted for—often, with no explanation.