This is one of the most important questions which pops up multiple times in our minds, right? I won’t believe you if you said no! Because, girls, let’s address it, we do ponder over this again and again! No matter what the circumstances are, or even if you have moved on with some other person, the feelings sometimes come back when the guy from the past suddenly promises to complete what was left behind. If you feel like saying yes or meeting him then it is very normal and you don’t have to feel guilty about it.
When it comes to me, I completely swear by a wise old saying,
“Never run back to the past only because it seems and sounds familiar.”
Future is always scary and uncertain and we do get tempted to move our ways back because it feels safer in our comfort zones. It’s okay to look back and sometimes to take a few steps backward in order to see the path with much clarity. But running back for all the wrong reasons instead of moving forward to unlock better things, it can be dangerous.
If you think you parted your ways with the guy for the right reasons then there should be no reason to go back and mess things again. I would suggest keeping the degree of your self-respect high and more than that learn to say no, learn to figure out the difference between attraction and true admiration. One should always remember that love is healing, love never-ever hurts, love will make you a better person. It will make you feel like taking care of yourself and others and if it is other wise then you should worry a little bit. Never hold on to grudges but never make the same mistake twice because you never know what magic life has to offer, you just have to keep your focus ahead, in the right direction.
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